I dreamt that my husband had booked himself a reservation for a restaurant with a fancy name, something like "Agar Agar". It may have been Valentine’s Day. He said "I love having woman on woman time!" As if that meant spending time with himself somehow? I was like, "So, you didn’t book a reservation for the both of us? Just you?" And he was like, "Yeah...it was really expensive…" and throughout the rest of the dream I was sort of waking up, in and out of consciousness. I wasn't lucid but I remember feeling really upset and angry at him and confusing it with the waking world. Maybe I was semi-lucid, having thoughts while in between dream/wake. Anyway, I wanted him to realize that is something that would obviously make me upset. I felt he just wasn’t getting it. I had questions rolling through my mind on the nature of codependency; What is it? Am I codependent? What qualifies for codependency? And then I woke up.
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